A: Only if they are officially on the tour line-up! If a guest is listed on your invitation envelope, they are absolutely invited to attend. Everything from the seating and food to the drinks and mocktails has been meticulously curated based on our exact, confirmed headcount. We love you, but please do not try to sneak anyone backstage. If their name isn't on the guest list, security (and the caterer) won't let them past the velvet ropes!

A: We love to see the littles, but for safety and allowing us to do adulting, we ask that you make this a date night for you and your other. Arrange for a sitter and come celebrate with us.

A: Dress to impress! Let’s be clear: this may not be a formal black-tie affair but think daytime sharp—polished, tasteful, and effortless. Think structured linen suits, sharp blazers, and gorgeous daytime dresses. And hey, if you look in the mirror and you're still not sure... ask somebody! Keep in mind, the paparazzi (our photographers and family) will be out and about all day. Any photos captured are completely out of our control and will live forever on the internet and in our official wedding books. Show up looking fly, step up your style game, and be ready for your close-up!

A: In the words of classic R&B: hold up, wait a minute! We deeply appreciate everyone who believes that "being early means being on time." But for this specific track, arriving early actually means you’re late to the party setup! The doors will not open until 6:30 PM sharp. We need every minute to get the venue dialed in, so plan to arrive just in time at 6:30 PM when the beat officially drops.

A: Short answer: You’ve got this! Given that this is not our first launch party, we figure everyone here is an adult and knows how to find and book a room on their own. We have officially decided not to take on the additional stress of trying to play travel agents. Trust us—you would probably hate where we ended up putting you, and you'd end up paying way more than you should anyway! ;) There are plenty of great hotel and Airbnb spots around San Jose and the South Bay, so feel free to book whatever fits your vibe and budget.

A: We are so grateful for your love and support as we begin this new chapter in our lives! While we truly have everything we need to start our journey together, if you’d like to honor us with a gift, we would greatly appreciate contributions towards our honeymoon or future endeavors. If you insist, we take cash, Zelle, Venmo, and even checks if you still get down that way! If you are all techie, a cash registry link is available right here on our website for those who prefer to give this way. All jokes aside, please know your presence at our wedding is the greatest gift of all!

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